Eunique’s story
Corcoran High School student Eunique
Darby fought a rare form of Leukemia for years, but this week, she
finally lost her battle to the disease. 15 year old Darby was
diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia, a Cancer that affects
the white blood cells, when she was only nine years old.
Throughout her long search for a donor, the teen held drives
encouraging people to join the Bone Marrow Donor Registry. Her own
search was often disappointing. A donor was found in May, but
complications cancelled the surgery. Finally in August, a perfect
match was found and she spent the next several months recovering.
However, complications from Chemotherapy and Radiation proved to be
too much. She died Monday. "I'm just glad she's not suffering
anymore," said Eunique's aunt Debrah Frett. "She doesn't have to go
to the doctors, she doesn't have to be poked. Now she can be a
teenager. Even though she's in heaven, she can live a teenage life."
Aside from the frequent phone calls and covered dishes brought to
their home, there's one thing that's helping Eunique's family get
through this difficult time. That's knowing they're not alone.
"Through all the treatments and doctors and hospitals, I kept her
kind of sheltered, and to know that so many people in this community
love her, it's beautiful," said Enid Darby, Eunique's mother. A wake
will be held from 10 a.m. to noon at the Gospel Temple on Oakwood
Avenue and funeral services will follow at noon on Saturday.
Eunique's aunt is hoping to establish a scholarship in her name by
the end of the year.
Our first experience
with Charity for Children was in the fall of 2005. I was put in contact
with them through the social worker at University Hospital after I had
problems with paying my utilities. Eunique had just had her first
relapse of ALL, my husband had just been incarcerated, and I was at my
wits end. Nina came through and paid the utility bill and even to my
surprise gave me money to give myself a nice Christmas present (although
I spent it on the kids). Although I had always wanted to give back I was
never financially able to.
Fast forward to 2008, Eunique had relapsed
again. Now she needs a bone marrow transplant. I have taken an unpaid
leave of absence to take care of her and the many doctors appointment
and countless days in the hospital. Her transplant has to take place in
Rochester, NY. Life takes a horrible turn, the original donor backs out,
I thought that I had saved enough money to take care of us for the time
that we would need to be out of town. Now with the donor backing out
that means that I would have to be out of work a little longer, which
means the funds have run out. I look to one person who may help me out.
I am embarrassed because I never was able to give back, but I finally
got up the nerve. One call to Nina and she remembered me. Without
hesitation she has helped me out once again. Charity for Children along
with Nina Albino have been a godsend for me. I don’t know what I would
do without them.
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